Life for me off of the top was a dooms day waiting to happen. I was conceived on Valentine’s Day of 2006 through forbidden love. My father was married and cheated with my mother. Their choices caused me to feel neglected, suffer abuse, and feel rejected. Being a BBW wasn’t a beauty I was taught to embrace. I learned that no matter how much I weighed, or my ethnicity, I deserved to be loved. We teach people how to treat us by what we allow and accept. The sad part about my life was the fact that while searching for love in all the wrong places, I wound up starting the same cycle I was created from.